There is a proverb that says, “Masters who sacrifice for servants will receive the gift of loyalty.” Your success is multiplied by the success of those around you. The success of those around you can be multiplied by your help and support.
I am not suggesting that we are surrounded by servants that we need to serve. But I am suggesting that your success is directly related to how you help others become successful.
This is the time of year when we are reflecting on the past and making plans for the future. If you want to be more successful next year, increase your effort on serving others. To get you started on this reflection exercise, consider questions in these three areas:
1. Do you have a servant’s attitude when it comes to your leadership? When you are in a leadership position (work, family, organization, business, etc.) what is your true purpose? Are you giving as much as you receive? What can you give to those around you that would help them? How can this group of people be more successful with your help? What unique skills do you bring?
2. What do the people closest to you value? What is the purpose of the people around you? What joy do they receive when you are around? What benefit do you provide that they desire? What brings a smile to their face when you approach them? If they don’t smile, then determine what will make them smile.
3. How can you increase the value added to the people closest to you related to what they value? Why are they associated with you? What can you do to strengthen the value you provide to them (not based on your purpose, but based on theirs). Their purpose is not aligned with the yours, but you can learn what they need. Make it part of your action plan for the coming year to help them achieve what they need to achieve.
Frank F. Warren said, “If you wish to be a leader you will be frustrated, for very few people wish to be led. If you aim to be a servant you will never be frustrated.” You will always be welcomed by others if they see you as a person that adds value, and is not afraid to help.
I facilitate small group meetings composed of individuals that increase their success through increased awareness and networking with others. We all can benefit from more personal success. You can join one of these groups by sending me an email at mbrown@newroadsleadership.com.